Mount Holyoke College
Class of 1963
Class Letters
February 2024
Join Us for Movie Night
“The Holdovers”
Dear MHC ’63 Classmates:
Following the very positive feedback from our class discussions of “Nomadland”, “Minari”, “Passing”, and “Women Talking” since 2021, we are making plans for another Class of 1963 discussion in March this year of the movie “The Holdovers.”.
Everyone who is interested is encouraged to participate. We will have a chance to come together in this discussion with anyone in our class.
The Holdovers is a 2023 American comedy-drama film directed by Alexander Payne, written by David Hemingson. Set in December 1970 and January 1971, the film stars Paul Giamatti as a strict classics teacher at a New England boarding school who is forced to chaperone a handful of students with nowhere to go on Christmas break. Da'Vine Joy Randolph and Dominic Sessa respectively play the school cafeteria manager and one of the students who stays on campus. (From Wikipedia)
These three actors are the center of the plot and their tentative approach about how they will survive the weeks at the lonely school setting is the focus of the movie. Starting off distrustfully, even angrily, each character has a chance to experience exposure to each other in a new way. Each is given a chance to confront past conflict situations that marked who they are.
The story may seem simple and the presentation, set in the 1970’s, old fashioned, but there’s a much deeper drama going on. As the movie unfolds, each character changes in unexpected and satisfying ways. Using both comedy and drama the plot shows how unfortunate and difficult life situations can be transformed into character changing results.
We should mention that the movie was filmed at a few different New England schools, which is especially evocative of our time in the same corner of the world. There’s one other connection to MHC. Many of us may remember that Bart Giamatti’s grandfather, Professor Valentine Giamatti, was the head of the Italian language department during our years there.
The film can be streamed on the following sites and the rental fee seems to be $5.99 for most of them:
Prime Video
Redbox
Vudu
Google Play Movies &TV
Apple TV
You Tube
Also showing on Peacock with a subscription
Please watch “The Holdovers” and join our Zoom discussion on Tuesday, March 5th at 7:30 pm ET. We plan to end at 9:00 pm.
If you are interested in being part of the discussion please email Mary Ann Searles Weiss weissma@nku.edu as soon as possible. Please respond by Monday, February 26th. Before the end of that week the Zoom link will be emailed to everyone who has shown interest. At that time, we will also send the details re the format of the discussion.
Below are some materials related to the film, “The Holdovers.”:
‘The Holdovers’ Review: Three Sad Souls Stranded for Christmas”, by Wesley Morris, “The New York Times”, 10/26/23
“The Holdovers” Review – Alexander Payne and Paul Giamatti Reunite for a Charming Comedy, by Benjamin Lee, “The Guardian”, Sept 11, 2023
“Sadness and Triumph at a Massachusetts Boarding School” by David Sims, “The Atlantic”, 10/27/ 2023
Several trailers and clips of “The Holdovers” are available online.
We look forward to another valuable discussion and another opportunity to continue our connections and to create new ones.
Alice Andrus
Jenni DeWolf
Karel Koenig
Steph Smith
Mary Ann Weiss
Nancy Welker
Judy Widmann
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Letters from Former Class Presidents
Alice and Bunny (Ruth Brown Gramlich, Class VP)
April 2017
Endearing Classmates:
Lots of news in this letter, so here’s a summary:
- Announcing the 55th Reunion Team
- Save the Date May 25–27, 2018
- 2016 Destination Events
- 2016 classmate gatherings
- Campus news highlights
- In memoriam
Our 55th! May 25–27, 2018. Mary Ann Searles Weiss is our Reunion Chair. She is planning a warm and relaxed reunion on campus and in the environs during this three-day weekend. KarenKayser Benson and I will offer our reunion logistics knowledge to assist Mary Ann. Please fill out the Save the Date form to complete, which will give us an early indication if you’ll be joining us, thereby assisting our planning.
Also, now is the time to recommend a classmate for one of the Alumnae Association Awards to be given at Reunion. Visit the Alumnae Association website for more details at alumnae.mtholyoke.edu/award.
On Friday afternoon, May 25, the Alumnae Association is organizing a “Back to Class” opportunity for all classes. Also, there will be time to take tours, visit the greenhouses and the art museum. Friday night begins with an alumnae and faculty reception followed by a relaxed time together at our residence hall. We will organize a meet up with our Connections Class (2013). On Saturday, May 26, during the morning the traditional parade and all-alumnae events will take place. The afternoon will be unscheduled allowing rest and individual activities before a gala dinner at the Eric Carle Museum on the Amherst Road. The museum is an elegant venue for this special dinner together. Your ideas are welcome, so let us know what you’d like to do while on campus.
Honoring a request from several of you, we have reserved a block of rooms at the Hampton Inn and the Comfort Inn in Hadley as alternative accommodations. Of course, there will be rooms in our designated residence hall. Details will follow.
Class activity since last spring: Again this year, mini-reunions and other small group activities have taken place. Melissa Craig Parham and Shirley Trew Miller organized luncheons at Ellen Strauss Boer’s and Ruth Brown Gramlich’s homes. Ellen organized a tour of Mount Vernon; Bunny showed us her spectacular rooftop view of DC. Elaine Cox Jacoby organized a luncheon in historic East Brunswick, NJ, which included a number of first-time Middle States attendees along with Gail Carver Faris from Houston. Smaller gatherings were held in Minnesota, Vermont, Massachusetts, New York City, Outer Banks, NC and aboard the Via Canadian across Canada.
Two 2016 destination reunions enjoyed enthusiastic attendance. In March, over 30 gathered in Silicon Valley for a beautifully planned weekend, including a festive opening reception at Barbara (Randall) and Chuck Preuss’ Palo Alto home, tours of the enchanting Filoli Gardens, the Computer Museum and the Stanford Art Museums. Thank you, again, to the wonderful team led by Sandy Perrot Drew. Forty of us gathered in October, for the “Achieving Excellence” campus event. We stayed in Willits and in a local B&B, were serenaded by the fabulous singing group, “M & Cs,” attended classes, (I was at the 8:30 a.m. International Macro Economic Theory class), and heard from Acting President Stephens about the College. Two highlights were discussing Between the World and Me with Professor Amber Douglas and touring the Restoration Ecology site with Professor Kate Ballantine (www.mtholyoke.edu/restoration-ecology). This beautiful fall weekend deepened our understanding of our College and renewed our camaraderie. Kudos to the enthusiastic planning team led by Bunny Gramlich and Sally Wittenberg.
A number of classmates, some with their daughters and granddaughters, participated in the historic Women’s March following the inauguration of President Trump. Photos have been posted at www.mountholyokecollege1963.org. The fall election has presented both challenges and opportunities for the College. Recognizing the need for understanding diverse perspectives and ensuring security for students, the College leadership is responding. We expect to hear more soon.
Sadly, Susie Bump Vancura died after a long battle with ovarian cancer. In February 2017 five classmates: Melissa Parham, Sally Clark Michel, Lucy Carlborg Rosborough, Jenni Macdonald DeWolfe and Cyndy Rapp Curry attended the celebration of Susie’s life in Providence. Missy Parham, who was Susie’s roommate for four years, delivered a reflection. Several classmates have offered their remembrances on our “In Memoriam” page. Susie’s field was biochemistry. Her love for birds, ecology and the protection of species reflects the interests of so many in our class. Other classmates we lost during 2016 include: Nancy Strayer Groff, Martha Kaus Dursi, Susan Dent Aronson, and Nancy Towe Benet who are remembered on our website.
Several classmates have inquired about missing classmates. If you know classmates who have moved and left no forwarding address at the College, please ask them to consider updating their information and joining our website. They are part of us and fondly remembered.
In conclusion, please fill out and return the enclosed form to Mary Ann (included here) to help us plan. Do let us know your preferences and whether you will attend.
Looking forward to seeing many of you very soon.
Love, Alice
Piazza del Popolo, Roma Fall 2015 Please visit our class website
September 2014 My delightful and enormously-talented classmates: I want to share with you a wonderful experience at Mount Holyoke. Last night, Colby and I attended the Weissman Center and InterArts Council sponsored lecture by Carrie Mae Weems, this year's Leading Woman in the Arts. In a breathtaking display of her genius, Carrie took us through her body of work leading us to deepen our own observation of so many intellectural, cultural and community areas of our lives. Her voice and words (she uses text often in her work) describing how she felt and saw her work were mesmerizing. It was as if we were watching a dance by Martha Graham as she wove the stories and shared her perception of how she achieved her mega-body of work with her camera. Her work begins from an idea, usually at the nexus of art and culture or art and community, which is then explored in her particular style. Continually, the themes are revisited and combined with later thought and work in a deeper and deeper exploration.This approach has served her to produce extraordinary images over a course of 40 some years. Armed with a Rollei and tripod, she sites and takes her photos alone, often placing herself within the context. She has been lauded widely, including with the Rome Prize and a MacArthur genius grant. Her Leading Woman in the Arts residency concludes today. During today's final workshop, she and 12 students are building a video work centered on Michael Brown, recently killed in Ferguson MO.. For me, seeing and hearing Carrie Weems was one of the great experiences of my year. Earlier, we visited John Stomberg's (MHCAM director) brilliant brain-child: the Matisse Drawings show curated by 91 year-old Ellsworth Kelly.The drawings, arranged in a single line on four halogen-white walls, created a delicious display of faces, eyes, lips, limbs where line defined women. Matisse's women are graceful, arty, knowing, wary, self-satisfied and self-confident. No fear, no trauma here. Ellsworth Kelly's drawings of fruit and leaves, which echo Matisse's line, create a delightful small side complement to him. If you have a chance to be at MHC, or near it, do not miss this exciting work. Hope you'll share your own recent art experiences with all of us. Happy fall to all, Alice
May 2014 Hello Dear Friends: I promise a lengthier letter soon, but wanted to catch up on the news. I've had an opportunity to see a few folks over the past few weeks and some of you have written about your own get togethers. We want to hear more about your gatherings and what you all did. In early May, Colby an I attended an MHMuseum Art Tour to Houston. Joan Gagnebin Wicks joined the tour as well. While there we saw Becky Erickson Hudson and her husband. It was such fun to connect in her hometown. Sadly, our time was short and filled with collector and museum visits so we were unable to spend enough time together. Mental note: Houston is a wonderful city and would make a great place to meet up and enjoy their vibrant art scene as well as visit with classmates like Becky. Also, heard from Gail Carver Ferris after we were there, so nice to be in touch with Gail. Mid-may Libby Short and her husband, Mike, joined Colby and me for barbeque at our son, John's, restaurant, Max City BBQ, in Eagle Rock (LA) California. We had a great visit. Libby recommended we visit the Museum of the American West, where she has been a board member and docent. We took her recommendation and had a wonderful time re-living the early days of cowboy movies with authentic costumes from Roy, Gene, Clint and the rest among other stunning exhibits. Stay tuned, Southern Californians and hopefully we'll find a venue for all of us to meet sometime before our next reunion. Judy Reeve, Ann Sadowsky, Jane (Gigi) Darby and Mary Doyle met for lunch in Hanover recently and Sally Donner and Ken had lunch with Nawrie and her husband this May in Woods Hole. So that is all great. The big event this May is Elaine Cox Jacoby's hosted event at the Princeton Museum where twelve will be gathering for a tour and lunch. I'm sorry I can't be there but wish you all a great time together. Helen Weinland is planning a Newport weekend in October for the Boston dinner group. Karen Kayser Benson and I are working on the Miami Art Basel event in December. You'll hear more soon. Meantime, send your news of get togethers and include photos if you can. If you can, encourage others to join our website here and don't forget the Mount Holyoke Fund by June 30..we are in contention to break the record for the 51st year giving. And, even a small gift will help in terms of participation. Finally, congratulations to MHC 1964 for its record-breaking 50th reunion gift to the college. All good. Love to all, Alice
October 2013 Dear 1963 Classmates, Having recently returned from our class transition meeting as well as the college volunteer conference, I now have no other excuse for not writing to you to report in on activities and to engage your interest in some ideas for class activities over the next five years. As many of you have reported, we have lost no time in getting in the mini-reunion spirit. In July, Mary Doyle hosted several of us in New Hampshire, Jane Bruce wrote about plans to meet with a group of close college friends in New York and Gretta Powers, Sue Thornley and Barbara Phelps Griffiths celebrated 50 years of friendship at Barbara's home in France. I suspect that many others have had a chance to get together over the summer. Please share your news about your gatherings on the website. We'd like to hear how every many one is doing. As a part of our transition, we have closed the books on our 50th reunion. The financial facts testify that, yes, we had a very good time. We have slightly over $5,000 in our treasury going forward. Steph Smith has taken on the Treasurer role and Elizabeth Burton has resigned from her co-Treasurer position. We appreciate Elizabeth's skillful handling of all the reunion financials and keeping a complete and accurate set of books. About 50 of us responded to the quick survey at reunion. The rave reviews of the 50th were unanimous. Susie, Karen and Swifty and the reunion team put on a spectacular event and so many more of you pitched in to help, it was really a shared effort. Many of you donated financially to make this so special, so we want to thank you once again. Some issues plagued a few folks and we'll take full notice of those and change what we can for our 55th. More shuttles, better vegetarian choices, dorm concerns are duly noted. However, very few wish to be off campus so we will most likely be in the dorms again. Mini-reunions were encouraged with the most requests for a casual weekend get-away at a destination with an interesting program or speaker. Along with the regional representatives who will head up the mini-reunion effort, 11 of you volunteered to help out. We will be setting out a schedule of minis over the next four years. The survey results were to keep the costume simple so we are RECYCLING our scarves. Hold on to those wonderful scarves for our 55th..and the bags for that matter. Karel Mortenson Koenig volunteered to be our class liaison to the Curriculum to Care initiative at the college. She invites any interested classmate(s) to join her. The C2C is now called The Lynk. The purpose of The Lynk is to guarantee every undergraduate an internship so that experiential learning is a part of their undergraduate curriculum. At the volunteer conference, we heard two seniors talk about their internships with the Smithsonian library and UNICEF. They both spoke on how their preparedness allowed them to take on tasks that usually don't fall to interns. I'm sure Karel will let us know how the LEAP event (seniors discuss their internship experiences) goes in late October. You can read more about this new college initiative on the college website. Speaking of websites, I encourage all of you to sign up at our supplemental website (www.mountholyokecollege1963.org.) We have decided to continue it as it offers more functionality than the AA site. There is a link to the college site on our class site. I am sorry to report that, at the end of August, Nancy Hunt died quite suddenly of pancreatic cancer. Nancy had planned to join us for lunch at Mary Doyle's but came down with what she thought was the flu. She died two weeks later. Deb Jones Hall reports that a group of classmates was able to visit with Nancy before her death and held a memorial gathering for her in September. Nancy leaves a daughter, Elizabeth. A complete obituary can be found on our class website. I'm looking forward to hearing from you and seeing many of you over the months ahead. We hope you will volunteer to help with mini-reunions and will attend some over the next few years. Let me know what programming you would like to have happen and how we can answer questions about the college and our class as we develop plans for our next reunion and for our class gift. We are exploring the idea of a legacy gift and invite your suggestions. Thank you for entrusting the class leadership to Ruth Gramlich, Steph Smith, Ann Sadowsky, our class agents, our mini-reps, our scribes and me. It is our good fortune and pleasure to represent you. Love, Alice
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