I recently sold my house overlooking the Shenandoah Valley and moved across town to a continuing care retirement community, a transition long planned because I have no immediate family. I find that the new setting greatly increases my social options and access to cultural activities without any pressure on myself to perform.

The average move-in age is late 70s, but I hear many people say that they wish they’d come sooner, both to ensure they could manage the move effectively and to enjoy the included amenities. I strongly encourage classmates to take things in hand; even a reluctant partner may find s/he takes pleasure in the new scene. And it hugely reduces the time and energy spent on cooking, keeping house, and arranging support services when needed!

I'm so glad to hear that your move has brought you so many good things!  I, too, made a move in July that has proved successful because now I'mliving with my son and daughter-in-law and three beautiful cats.  But I get to keep all my previous Princeton activities, as well.  I underscore your suggestion that anyone who is considering a move do it soon.  It is a major commitment, and you need time to plan and accomplish it.

Best, Elaine